Their Love Assumptions Became Reality
Oct 12, 2026
What happens when you stop waiting for your Specific Person to decide whether you get the relationship you f*cking want?
You stop giving them and your 3D authority and start deciding what’s yours.
These members in my private Facebook group, The Squad show you exactly what happens when you change your self concept and stop letting them or your circumstances lead the story.

One member transformed her Self Concept and never gave up on her SP, despite not seeing him for almost a year. He came back apologising, asked her out, and now tells her every day how appreciated and amazing she is.

Another scripted her SP saying, “I don’t know what I did to deserve you.” Then she sat across from him at dinner and heard those exact words come out of his mouth.

She went from an argument and barely speaking to her SP calling, declaring he loves her and asking her out. Instead of reacting to the 3D, she decided “this man is mine” and stopped accepting anything else.

And this member said death to the old self concept that said she never gets what she wants. Now they’re moving in together, he calls her his wife and openly talks about marriage, their future home and having babies together.
The story you persist in about yourself and your SP is the relationship you experience.
Inside The Squad, we’re changing our relationship stories with my newest course, MAKE THEM YOURS.
If you’re ready to stop waiting for your SP to decide what happens, make sure you’re in The Squad and get parts 1 and 2 of MAKE THEM YOURS.
You’re Next!
❤️ Loz